A Girl and Her Boys

Ok. J and I were playing R-U-M-M-Y last night and I beat him... He literally threw a little kid fit. Stomped off to the living room. Huffed on the couch. Threw his hat. Ignored me for an hour or so then said he needed to go for a run and he'd feel better...cause he "hates losing". Boys are dumb. At first I just laughed at him. But then it ticked me off too. I had to ignore him right back for a while. I refuse to get into our first arguement about an old person card playing game like rummy. Seriously. Rummy. I'm at a loss for words...

Here are my thoughts and opinions on introducing children in a relationship. It's complicated and tricky and it requires a lot of finesse. I am VERY serious about this topic and I have strong opinions. I think mother's that introduce there child/children to every man she's humping is inappropriate and irresponsible and ESPECIALLY those mother's who let there very young impressionable child start calling there live in boyfriend of a grand total of 8 months Daddy! Obviously I have a specific person in mind on this rant... J has a little boy, I think I've mentioned before, and I have since that post, met him. I'm scolding myself a little because I am not 100% sure I am ready for this step (close but not totally) and I let the pressure collapse me a little earlier than I would have liked. I think I have also mentioned before that a child is not a relationship deal breaker having been a very much loved step child myself. So, this is where I am stand that subject. Wha

I am dying to get a tattoo. I don't know what the urge is really but I want one so bad! What's the deal?? My mom, sister and I are all going to get matching tattoos sometime as soon as we all have the money (which is hard for us all to have at the same time). We are going to get three stars with scrolling behind them. I'm getting that one on my foot and I think my sister is too. Not sure where my mom is getting hers - maybe her shoulder. But I don't know if I can wait for that one... One that I'm sure of is (someday when I have one) I want to get my kids names tattooed on my ankle or wrist - well not sure where exactly but I want their names. Also, there is a really awesome one that J and I found that we are contemplating getting together IF we get hitched someday. Big if, but it's an AWESOME idea. Love the lettering too. But, again, I CAN'T WAIT for those... Have to get one. But what?