A Girl and Her Boys

...BUT Packing and actual physical moving blows a big donkey butt hole!! J and I don't argue but we've been giving each other the evil eye a lot over the last few days. He hates packing and I hate that he keeps putting it off. I just want to GET. IT. DONE. He wants to go to bed at 9:30 or 10:00 (an hour or two after he gets home) and insists he can't sleep without me and won't let me stay up and pack more. Erg. AND he keeps changing our moving plans. It's exhausting and I'm less than friendly with him about it. I love him but I could eat his face off sometimes. I'm just ready to get moved. Merry Freaking Christmas... Bleh.

We signed the paperwork today on the duplex. :o) We are so excited to move!! Ahh...Home Sweet Home!

It's not the designated bloggy randomness day today but I haven't posted for a while and I feel like wasting a little time from my hair pulling I'm doing at work today. It's going to be random and bumpy and lots of updating so hold tight! All 3 of you... :o) J, little j, and I went to Texas for Thanksgiving. The drive was ridiculously long. But worth it! We had a great time. Met LOTS of the family. Thanksgiving day the house was FULL of people. And its a big house... I really love J's parents and they fortunately return the sentiment so I wasn't really all that nervous about the rest of the fam . Parents are the most important element right? I think I still did ok with the rest of them though. They are pretty great people and I think unless I had a third eye and a just a plain ol ' nasty attitude, they would probably accept me any way. We had a great time the rest of the week too. I wish we were still there! We took j and J's niece to the movies and ...

I miss when I was a little kid and I would sit on Santa's lap or write him a letter and magically some or all of the things on my list would show up under the tree! I stopped sitting on Santa's lap (because it just got kind of weird) and I stopped writing letters and - ugh - the presents stopped coming! So, it's obvious I need to write my Wishlist and send it to Santa...duh. Here it is: Dear Santa, I have been a very good...um, a pretty good...well, ok, I've been a mildly good girl this year. I was nice to my brother and sister MOST of the time and my mom and dad ALL of the time. I went to work every day and worked REAL hard! And I was only a LITTLE mean to the boys...but they deserved it! In exchange for all of my goodiness throughout the year, I would like the following: *New Coach purse (or Ed Hardy or Gucci - I'm not picky) *Lots of high heels & boots *A $5,000 gift card to go clothes shopping (will gladly donate my ENTIRE current wardrobe to charity!) *201...

Today J and I have been together for 6 months and, I have to say, this has been the greatest 6 months in a relationship I have ever had! By far!! No others even compare. I'm so lucky to have him and he makes me so incredibly happy! The past 6 months have gone by so fast, but yet, when I think about how long we've been together, I can't help but think "It's only been six months??". I always thought this kind of relationship wasn't possible - that it was unrealistic to even want this type of relationship. He always thinks of me first and treats me as a partner... He's even more considerate than I ever thought of being to someone else and the best part of our relationship is we laugh together, at each other and at ourselves... We crack each other up and make each other smile at the goofy things we do and say!! I'm sure to everyone else we are the biggest goobs alive, but I think he's perfect for me and feels the same. We have fun together and enjo...

J and I were sitting on the couch the other night and he says: "There's something that's been bothering me today and I need to ask you about it..." and he has the most serious pouty, droopy, concerned look on his face. It was totally sad. Ummm....okay. Thinking to self - ... but I actually haven't done anything bad lately?? I felt guilty just LOOKING at him. "I noticed the other day when you were showing me a site that Flirt.com popped up on your history, or something like that. Flirt something...what was that?" ... ... ... There was a pause as I was thinking, What the hell "FLIRT" site have I been on??!? At which time J claims I had this BS "Quick think of a lie" look on my face. ... ...Oh... Then it hits me. My sister offered up her apron that she's reviewing from Flirtyapron.com for my Halloween costume. At which point I laugh hysterically... and then I explain, at which point he kind of smirks at himself. Then I laugh ev...

Caution: Thought Vomit Ahead I miss my nephew and hate the fact that he's growing up without me around. On that note, I miss my sister as well...and my mom and dad...and grandparents. Still not so much my little brother. I still feel the urge to smack him next time I see him, so I am not wanting to be around him yet. I got to eat dinner with my mom last night at Panera - yumm -o!! She is in town for a work thingy. I get to eat dinner with her and Dad and J tonight. Don't know where we are going yet but I'm excited. It's the little things that amuse and excite me. I am sick of my desk job. There...I said it out loud. I hate sitting here at this computer all day. I don't want to be here, I can't stay on task and just have a general feeling and attitude that I just don't give darn anymore... Not. Good. So I've had crazy thoughts of career changes in my head but -sigh- I know I won't do it because I won't make as much money as I am now and I barely ...